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I didn't say 100% secure I said they have only 1 initial attack vector, Abyss. Unless someone is determined to attack you specifically rather than just generally looking for a website to deface and piss someone off, they're pretty much going to give up as soon as they see only the web port open and a server with no known exploits running. Yes, they could sit down and experiment with bof's, directory traversal etc, but they're far more likely to just move on and try someone else. Compare this to if you've moved your PC into the DMZ and they have 10+ exposed services to work on - if your patches aren't bang up to date there are some very nasty MS remote vulnerabilites.
If you have the skills, you can find a vulnerability in the firmware of the router, and take that down.
You can only find a vulnerability in the firmware of the router if one exists to find. They also first have to identify what router you have, a fairly massive task in itself. If they manage to find that, how long do you think they'll spend poking through the firmware code ? Be realistic for a second. The people who are likely to try hack your site because you pissed them off at MSN/beat them at counterstrike/whatever are not going to be security experts, they're going to search packetstorm/google for exploits, find nothing and give up...
Also, you can try various common exploits, like buffer overflow, DDoS (or maybe even DoS) and see what the result is. I don't think there has ever been an incident when Abyss has experienced a [D]DoS
Version v1.1.2 of Abyss had a DoS vulnerability, v1.0.3 and below had some directory traversal problems...
You will always be vulnerable to a DDoS unless you have an insane amount of bandwidth. Anyone who is controlling a reasonable number of zombie machines will be able to slow your machine's net connection to a crawl regardless of what security you've set up - on a personal level, not considering businesses who can ask their ISP to tweak upstream routers etc. DoS isn't a security risk so much as an inconvenience though.
What exactly were you suggesting you could attack with a bof, the router, or Abyss ?